It has been said that some women will just let themselves go once they are in a relationship and it is frequently true. However, men are guilty of the same thing; women are just more tolerant of it. This does not mean that you should not make the effort because a woman does notice and she too misses the body you had when the two of you first met.
Here is a short list of “body blunders” that she finds the most offensive:
“Man Boobs” – Since this is most likely her favorite place to lay her head and lovingly caress it is a treasured area for her; meaning that a carpet covered pair of posh man boobs is definitely not a turn on (even more so if yours are bigger than hers).
“Beer Belly” – When she looks at you this is what she sees since your stomach is basically your whole front. No one likes to look at a protruding, saggy stomach and since that seems to be where men gain weight first, especially you regular beer drinkers, that is naturally the main source of your excess weight. No, you do not have to have abs made of steel, but being tucked in is definitely nice.
“Bad Teeth” – Having bad teeth will make you lose out on more than you will ever know. Smiles are how you show pleasure and if when you show your pleasure you display broken/missing, stained, etc. teeth you may want to consider some dental work. Keep in mind that having bad teeth usually means that you have bad breath as well.
“Hairy Backs” – Smooth, beautiful backs are certain women pleasers and may get you further than your full head of hair or sparkling personality will. Of course it is not your fault that you have those hairy genes, but truthfully you may get more attention without all of that hair. There are some women that love that excess hair, deeming it manly, but on the whole less is better.
Sexual attractiveness is important and sometimes as a relationship goes on complacency and laziness may start to creep in; if you want her to make more of an effort when it comes to her appearance you need to do the same.